My Daughter is a Grown Up

Carley turned 18 last week. She's made a conscience decision that now she has to be a grown-up, and it hasn't been all fun for her. If you asked her, I think she would tell you that she chooses to stay a little girl. But with her predictable maturity and pragmatism, she knows what she needs to do. And she is rising to the occassion. She is such a blessing to our family!



She wanted a cheesecake for her birthday dessert, and gave me three choices of flavors, and I chose to try a peanut butter one. In a word: Rich.




I suspect that this was an assignment in Spanish for Kimball, but still sweet that he gave his sister this valentine.

Kitchen Renovation Begins

We decided months ago that it was time to update our kitchen, to be more beautiful, and my favorite reason, more functional! We learned that our Amish-made cabinets will be done in a couple of weeks, so intensity begins as we make sure the wiring is how it needs to be, the venting, and the preparations for the new floors, including painting the walls. The ceiling was finished last week, with new lights and new paint. Please note that anytime the word "we" happens in connection with real work on this project, it can be substituted for "Todd", or "My Sweetie". He is owning this project, and with the generous help of friends, is taking it in small pieces and getting the job done. The only outside, paid help he will get is from Erwin, the Amish cabinet maker who will also install.

I'm anxious to post a few pictures and update the progress!!

These picture of the demolition of the soffits were actually taken several weeks ago, just after Christmas. That's when we learned that there are pipes hidden in the soffits and that a Sawzall really will saw All, even water pipes!


This picture shows the new canned lights. We still need to choose pendants.

A Real Friend.

Yesterday a friend and I went for a drive. We had a destination and a purpose. We were productive with the errand we ran. But more imporant to me, by far, was the counsel, validation and direction I received from a friend who listened intently and spoke with love. For living such a small life, how can I feel the weight of the world on my shoulders? My challenges must seem pathetic to many, yet they challenge and frustrate me. I know I have it GREAT ... my life is so blessed. But a real friend doesn't brush past that fact and tell you that you have nothing to complain about. I learned yesterday that a real friend sees when you have a need for change and offers encouragement in making the change.

Let's try this again ...

Long time no ... update.
I'm going to see if I can figure it out this time around. :o)